We have all being single at one point in life either by choice or due to circumstances. Everyone can attest that during this period all sorts of remarks and statements are directed towards you by others already in relationships or by people in the same situation as yours.
All the good girls are taken – Don’t even bother looking for one, as you will never find a suitable partner is what this over used line is saying. Mostly heard from other singles that have given up on relationships. It’s a naked lie. The number of women in the world is growing, in fact according to INED females actually out numbering men in many countries. There is no way all these women are straight or rotten apples!
You should get out more – It is true that if you are not going out and meeting new people ‘out there’, finding a partner is next to impossible. The funny thing about this statement is that it is usually uttered by people who are in a relationship that doesn’t involve socializing!
Have you met anyone? – The opening question every single person dreads answering every time he meets up with a friend he has hasn’t seen in a while. It is a high pressure question with the answer being “no” after all meeting someone is big news.
You just need to – Put on a suit, dress younger, get a new haircut, grow your hair out, talk less, talk more, change your car, change your cologne, change your phone, smile more, be a bit serious, know what you want, be spontaneous, make your profile funnier, make your profile less creepy, know what you want and many more others. People are terribly verbal about what they think is wrong with you when it is about dating and relationship.
Mrs. Right is out there somewhere – She sure is but you have to be proactive and put in some effort. Getting a partner requires work and having a good relationship with someone also requires work.
