Lesbian 101 – If you are single and looking for that special person you have probably heard it all. The good and the bad. Here’s a list of the worst dating advice ever. Beware it’s also pretty common advice too.
Play hard to get – Even for ladies this rarely works nowadays. Pretending to be uninterested in a lady will not make her want you more, you will appear snobbish and a total jerk if you are always full of yourself and wait for the ladies to line up for you. You will also be alone.
Just get out there – This is a popular one. Mostly used by your friends and colleagues who are already in a relationship and assume you are just not going out there enough. The problem is, just where is there? The street corner or the bus stop? Please tell them to clarify where “there” is. At least then someone can know what to wear!
Women love bad butches – The advice mostly involves people telling others that they should not be a ‘goody two shoes’. They should toughen up. Sure some women don’t go for the suit and blouse type, but most women love a honest, hardworking women.
Don’t show her you care – This macho advice seeks to protect the idea that as a women showing emotion is wrong. Feelings should be bottled up inside and never let out. Not true my friend. Some feelings are to be shared with your special one, it will make you much closer,
She is out of your league – If she is too beautiful, wealthy or successful then she is out of your league. You don’t have to equal her in everything before you ask her out. This misconceived line explains why so many successful women find it hard to get partners,
Jut be yourself – The people who say this think that if you are just yourself then everything will go well with you. News flash: in the world we are living in you have to keep improving yourself and not stay stagnant. Don’t be just content to stay yourself. Improve yourself every day and you will definitely get the woman of your dreams.
