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How to Get Out of a Relationship Rut

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Do you argue with your partner about the same things all the time? Is your relationship full of the same fights and the same boring schedule? Do you feel that things are not going well? Maybe you are in a relationship rut. How do you get over this and bring some sparkle back to your union?

Admit it – Admitting you are in a rut is the first step. Not accepting that there is something wrong in your relationship is a recipe for failure. Accept and then you can deal with.

Get close – There is the temptation of seeking comfort and companionship outside of the relationship when you are in a rut. This is not the way to go. Get close to your partner and always move towards each other; look to resolve your issues and get back on the saddle. If you move apart this might be taken as an opportunity by other females out there to close in on your territory.

Destroy the pattern – Every relationship rut has its patterns. Identify this patterns and break them. It may not be easy at first but with a strong will you can be able not only to identify them but also deal with them one and for all.

Plan something new – Get out of your daily schedules and plan something wonderful. Whether a trip or simply a long walk together. Get yourself out of the same boring routine and do something fun that will revitalize your relationship. Making fantasy plans is also a great way to get yourself out of a rut. Daydream together about what you are going to do when all your dreams come true. This will bring you much closer.

Schedule alone time – As much as relationships are all about two people, you also need some alone time with yourself. Schedule some time when you can be alone. Read a book, write something or just gaze into the sunset and clear your head. This will put everything into a much clearer perspective.

Relationship ruts are terrible to be in, but what is worse than that is not doing anything about it.

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