Tag: advice

9 Things You Lose When You Say Sorry

Human communication is a crazy thing. The entire planet has had thousands upon thousands of years to get it all right… And still we manage to say things we don’t mean, and other people pick up on things that were absolutely not our intention. You’d think we’d have it all…

What Will Sex Be Like in the Future?

On one hand, sex has stayed the same since the beginning of time – after all, male and female bodies haven’t really changed, so neither has the process of procreating. On the other hand, sex is changing rapidly all the time thanks to the advent of sex toys, dental dams,…

How Shakespeare Can Teach You To Pick Up Girls

When it came to being a playboy, Shakespeare was worse than Shane from the L Word. Hard to believe, right? How can anyone be more of a womanizer than the woman who (spoiler) left her fiancee at the altar because she was afraid of commitment? It’s summer, which means summer…

People Look For Hookups More In Summer, Study Says

Fall is for dates at pumpkin patches. In winter, you need someone to cuddle with. Spring is the season of blossoming love. But summer? Summer is for sex. Hey, it’s science. OKCupid recently released their analysis from a study of 18 million active users. Over the course of years, from…

Should You Do A Sex Detox?

Sometimes, you have to limit your body in order to free your mind. That’s the rationale behind a new wave of young women who are embracing the sex detox as a way to increase their mental and physical health. What’s a sex detox? Well, imagine a life without sex. Now…

What Do Butch Women Like In Bed?

When you picture a butch woman, who comes to mind? Maybe it’s Poussey or Boo from Orange is the New Black, each sporting short hair and a boyish swagger. Maybe it’s Ruby Rose, who blurs gender. Maybe you picture an innocuous short-haired woman like Tig Notaro or Alison Bechdel, or…

Why Faking Orgasms Is Hurting Your Relationship

At some point or another, we’ve all faked it in bed. We’ve faked moans, we’ve faked intensity or maybe we’ve faked the entire orgasm. After all, we don’t want to hurt our partners’ feelings, and making them think that they’re amazing in bed is the best way to spare them.…

This Vibrator Syncs to Audiobooks

When it comes to sex toys, the crazier the better. That seems to be the motto of Vibease, who specializes in creating vibrators to fill needs that you didn’t know you had. Who knew that you couldn’t truly appreciate the literary qualities of Fifty Shades of Grey, without actually feeling physical…

When Does A Lesbian Lose Her Virginity?

Some women remember the exact moment that they lost their virginity. For some, it was magical. For others, humiliating. For still others, underwhelming or overwhelming or boring. But for women who sleep with women…many of us aren’t even sure when we lost our virginity. Everyone has a different opinion of…

Why Your Sex Life Will Improve At 30

So many women complain that they have never had an orgasm from their partner’s finger or a dildo and have actually said out loud that perhaps the G-spot simply doesn’t exist. But it does. However, we only become aware of how to achieve an orgasm through penetration only, or how…

8 Tips For Dating A Trans Woman, From a Trans Woman

Trans women are women. Period. And, as with dating any woman, there are many DOs and DON’Ts. Transgender writer Leila Blake recently sat down to school cisgender on people on how to have an amazing relationship with a transgender woman. Here’s what she said: 1. Don’t use the word “tranny.”…