Tag: gender roles

The Real Health Benefits Of Really Great Sex

Most people really like sex. We might have different preferences, different needs, and different fantasies, but reaching climax feels good for literally almost everyone. It’s widely known that good sex is good for your relationship, as orgasms cause the brain to surge with oxytocin, endorphins, and certain other brain chemicals…

Your Vagina: An Owner’s Manual

Vaginas are magical, mystical parts of the human body that have, for a long time, gone unnoticed. But whether you’re celebrating the ban against female genital mutilation (like in Gambia, here, or Nigeria, here) or just really happy that you’re a PVO (Proud Vagina Owner), we’d like to make sure…

Is Porn Ruining Your Sex Life?

Porn has come a long way over the years. What started as a dirty little secret kept by teen boys under their mattresses is now a huge industry that caters to every fantasy you might ever have (or even think about). The subject of porn itself is largely divided, though…

Is Shower Sex Totally Over-Rated?

Shower sex. It’s mysterious, sexy, and generally a fantasy among women. There’s something sexy about the idea of getting dirty in a place you usually get clean – which makes it a very subtle taboo. Plus, with slippery soap, sensual scents, and wet, naked bodies – it’s easy to see…

I’m Struggling To Fit In

Dear KitschMix, I know there are lots of ways to present ourselves externally, but I feel like I don’t fit into the queer community because I don’t dress the part. I dress in a way that’s casual yet feminine way. I don’t have any visible tattoos, and only have my…

11 Types of Orgasms a Woman Can Have

Most of us enjoy having orgasms. It’s pretty much a basic human instinct, actually, and unless there’s something else weighing on your mind, it’s pretty much guaranteed that orgasm = good. But what if I told you that you weren’t having the variety of orgasms that you could be having?…

Lesbian Safe Sex: How Much Do You Know?

For a long time, it’s been said that lesbians (and bisexual women in same-sex relationships) don’t need to practice safer sex, because women can’t give women STDs. Maybe you heard it from friends, or girlfriends, or maybe even your doctor. Maybe you thought you heard it somewhere, and just took…