Tag: gender roles

11 Orgasms A Trans Woman Can Have

So, I recently read an article on KitschMix by Barbara Ward enlightening readers to the great versatility of the female body to experience an incredible variety of orgasms. Like any woman, I thought – Wow! Eleven?! How many of these have I experienced or can experience? My somewhat unique position…

The Real Health Benefits Of Really Great Sex

Most people really like sex. We might have different preferences, different needs, and different fantasies, but reaching climax feels good for literally almost everyone. It’s widely known that good sex is good for your relationship, as orgasms cause the brain to surge with oxytocin, endorphins, and certain other brain chemicals…

17 Things Everyone Who Has Sex Should Know

Having sex is a big commitment. It comes with its own set of responsibilities and requirements, and it’s hard to know what all you really need to know. Luckily, we’ve collected a few facts that might make your sex life just a little bit sweeter. 1.     You’re probably not being…

Your Vagina: An Owner’s Manual

Vaginas are magical, mystical parts of the human body that have, for a long time, gone unnoticed. But whether you’re celebrating the ban against female genital mutilation (like in Gambia, here, or Nigeria, here) or just really happy that you’re a PVO (Proud Vagina Owner), we’d like to make sure…

7 Positions to Accommodate Three People

Threesomes are scary territory for many people. Realistically, they add an extra element to your sexual relationships that might not be possible without a third person – but there can be a lot of emotional needs involved too. We must urge our readers that are considering having a threesome to…

Is Porn Ruining Your Sex Life?

Porn has come a long way over the years. What started as a dirty little secret kept by teen boys under their mattresses is now a huge industry that caters to every fantasy you might ever have (or even think about). The subject of porn itself is largely divided, though…

7 Things We All Need to Stop Doing After Sex

Sex is weird. There’s pretty much no way around it. But you know what’s even more weird? That little period of time after you’ve both gotten off, but before you’ve done anything else. This time is particularly sensitive – especially since different women have different ideas of what should come…

Is Shower Sex Totally Over-Rated?

Shower sex. It’s mysterious, sexy, and generally a fantasy among women. There’s something sexy about the idea of getting dirty in a place you usually get clean – which makes it a very subtle taboo. Plus, with slippery soap, sensual scents, and wet, naked bodies – it’s easy to see…

My Girlfriend Doesn’t Believe in Marriage

Dear KitschMix, My girlfriend is 31, I’m 28 and we’ve been dating for 5 years, have been living together for 3. We’re both committed to each other and I can’t imagine spending the rest of my life with anybody else. Here’s our problem know, she doesn’t “believe” in gay marriage.…

I’m Struggling To Fit In

Dear KitschMix, I know there are lots of ways to present ourselves externally, but I feel like I don’t fit into the queer community because I don’t dress the part. I dress in a way that’s casual yet feminine way. I don’t have any visible tattoos, and only have my…

11 Types of Orgasms a Woman Can Have

Most of us enjoy having orgasms. It’s pretty much a basic human instinct, actually, and unless there’s something else weighing on your mind, it’s pretty much guaranteed that orgasm = good. But what if I told you that you weren’t having the variety of orgasms that you could be having?…

How To Have A Threesome, The Right Way

Almost everyone thinks about having a threesome at some point in their life. Whether you’re thinking of adding in a man or a woman, there’s something deeply rooted in our brains that tells us “Your sex life would be more interesting if you brought in someone new.” There might be…

Lesbian Safe Sex: How Much Do You Know?

For a long time, it’s been said that lesbians (and bisexual women in same-sex relationships) don’t need to practice safer sex, because women can’t give women STDs. Maybe you heard it from friends, or girlfriends, or maybe even your doctor. Maybe you thought you heard it somewhere, and just took…