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Is She Cheating?

According to Scott Dikkers book ‘You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day, Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair.

Could it be? Could your one and only be cheating on you? Here are easy ways you can tell if you are no longer her only one.

Drastic changes to schedule – Her once predictable program is no more. There are now frequent night outs with the girls. All of sudden she has developed an interest in the gym. Working hours have recently become longer extending into the night. All she is really doing is trying to find some alone time with her new woman.

Angry and resentful –  Everything you do or say is never right, she is always lashing out at you even over the smallest things, like an angry lioness chasing the weaker lion away, this is her telling you to back off, she has a new lion king in her life.

Phone and internet – There are calls that she only answers in private, others she rejects if the situation doesn’t allow for privacy. Before she used to leave her phone on the couch while she went to open the door, now she religiously carries it everywhere, even to the bathroom. She does not want that message from her new guy thanking her for the wonderful time yesterday to end up in your hands.

Family and friends – She wants no part in the wonderful times you used to enjoy with your friends. That visit to your folks is now a big no. ’Cheaters remorse’ is eating her and there is no way she is going to take a bite of your mom’s famous chocolate cake!

Intimacy – Since she is getting action from her new love your bed is becoming cold. If your partner is no longer interested in getting intimate with you, be very worried. The few times you get lucky, she has new tricks that she wants to try. Yes, she has been practicing.

Dressing up – Her taste in clothes changes. Just like when the two of you were dating she is now trying to impress someone else. There is a noticeable increase in her wardrobe, check out her lingerie collection. What is that new provocative underwear for, if she is not putting it on for you?

While this is by no means an exhaustive list, it’s a good pointer to some things you should look for. Remember the most important thing is to trust your instincts.