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What Your Zodiac Sign Says About Your Sex Life

Astrology is a fun thing to think about for many people, and for every person who thinks it’s utter garbage there’s bound to be someone who uses their astrological signs to make many important life choices. Personally, I think it has as much power over you as you allow it – just like any other “alternative” sciences.

So, what does this mean for you? Your choice to believe in astrology or not is purely a personal decision. If you find correlations that help you, that’s great! Everyone needs something to believe in, and if astrology is your thing, the following “sex horoscopes” may help guide you on your path to sexual fulfillment for this month.

Aries (March 20 – April 20)

Aries, if you’re single, you should expect a great deal of new encounters this month – some may even call them adventures on their own! On the 9th, Mercury goes direct, which promises that your love and sex will be truly exciting. Later in the month, Mars joins with Venus to entice the prospect of new dates and sexy fun. If it seems like your romantic interest isn’t feeling the same way about you, rest assured that they’re probably just shy. Make the first move and you will be rewarded.

For the Rams in a serious relationship, the full moon brings a blossoming of your love, so you should plan for new romantic encounters with your love. This will lead to the passionate sex you’ve been dying for, and makes for a perfect excuse to look for that sexy Halloween costume you’ve had your eye on. Not big into Halloween? That’s fine, just take advantage of the current influx of costumes to pick out an outfit that’s only for your partner to see.

Taurus (April 20 – May 21)

In the second half of the month, the shroud that’s been covering your sensuality should be lifted, and you have plenty of time to approach that new boo you’ve been eyeing. Make that date – you’ve got a great deal of luck coming to you this month. Make sure you don’t use this as an excuse to over-spend on your dates, though; this isn’t the way to win their affections.
Committed Bulls, the cooler weather will no doubt bring back the spark that you’ve been repressing lately. It’s a great time to get frisky with your lover – maybe even get the Halloween treats and costumes into the mix for some special holiday fun.

Gemini (May 21 – June 21)

Gemini, this month brings you personal satisfaction and a great deal of pleasure. Your intelligence and charm will help you win over that woman you’ve been pursuing. Your judgment will be clear and your sex drive will roar because of it. You’ll be able to accurately discern who is interested in you sexually, and use this to your full advantage this month. However, towards the end of the month, this will begin to taper off, and you’ll be more inclined to connect with your family than to seek out a new flame – don’t resist this urge!

If you’re in a committed relationship, your dual spirit will lead you to a deeper personal connection with your partner. Take some time to get to know her better – even if you’ve been together years, there’s no doubt a lot more to learn about her. Whether you’re in a relationship or not, this is a good time to seek out new friends, as the wavering in your sex drive will ensure that your attention can be focused on being a good friend and partner, rather than focusing on your sexual needs.

Cancer (June 21 – July 23)

For most of the month, you should be focusing on taking care of your body. This can be particularly difficult with the abundance of candy that’s present everywhere right now, but you must be diligent. Take some time to work on your emotional bonds, and it will translate to a better sexual experience around the 22nd. Don’t plan for any dates on the 27th, as the full moon may interfere with your plans and lead to heartbreak.

Love and sex are both a bit of an investment this month for all Crabs. Exercising with your love interest or partner could prove beneficial, as it will help to regulate your emotions and clear your mind. You will be rewarded for your focus and dedication with the glorious conjunction of Venus, Mars, and Jupiter towards the end of the month.

Leo (July 23 – August 23)

Your animal magnetism will shine bright this month, Leo, and you will be showered with affection. Consider making those changes you’ve been thinking about in regards to your wardrobe and your hair style – these will dazzle your new date. You could try a Halloween shopping date and choose a fun costume for yourself and your new partner – then tempt them to bring it to the bedroom for some extra sexy fun.

For the Lions in a committed relationship, you should put your effort into your relationship right now. Take some time off work, if at all possible, and spend that time with your partner. Get a fun new costume or outfit and parade yourself to your partner – she’s sure to love it. With Halloween so close, the full moon on the 27th promises to be a fun time for a private rendezvous in costume – what do you have to lose?

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Virgo (August 23 – September 23)

During the beginning of the month, you probably encountered some stress and hectic emotions. Rest assured that this is over for now and you can begin to relax. The alignment of Mars and Venus assure that your sexual appetite will boom – you should seek out a new partner and plan a great date. It’ll definitely net you the results you’re looking for.

If you’re in a committed relationship, it’s a good time to rent a sexy movie or read an erotic novel with your love. This activity will bring you closer as a couple and allow you to bring back the spice.

Consider planning an unforgettable evening, including a candlelight dinner, around the 27th – your partner will thank you accordingly!

Libra (September 23 – October 23)

Libra, this month has some few surprises up its sleeve for you, especially as it pertains to sex and love. You should expect some good news sometime soon – but don’t forget to set aside some attention to the important matters like your bills. The alignment of the planets right now will lead you to focus on your lustful thoughts, but you must not neglect the other aspects of your life.

For my committed Libra friends, this means that you should plan on a more romantic tone with your lover, and allow things to progress naturally. Don’t try to push the sex as you can get wrapped up in the moment and cause an argument. In fact, that argument may be inevitable – and it has the potential to translate to a bigger problem down the line. Don’t neglect your partner’s needs, or your financial responsibilities during this time or you can seriously regret it in the near future.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

Scorpio, this month is going to be thrilling for you. There will be plenty of opportunities for new sexual escapades, so you shouldn’t ignore these chances. You will have a great deal of charisma working for you this month, and the sexual power will flow through you better than ever.

Committed Scorpio lovers, your partner will surprise you with an increase in passion. Don’t let your jealousy ruin this extra love right now. Your partner deserves the same love they are giving to you. Especially toward the end of the month, your temper may be short, and you will have to control yourself to ensure you don’t make any silly mistakes.

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 22)

This month is a great time to sweep your lover off her feet with a romantic getaway. It doesn’t matter if you’re whisking her off to a tropical beach or simply visiting the local farm for some apple picking and pumpkin carving. Go shopping for some new clothes and buy those tickets!

For single Sagittarius ladies, this month invites you to take a new date to somewhere you’ve never been. You should try to travel as much as possible, and try new things. Splurge on something you’ve been eyeing for awhile, and take that new date to the restaurant you’ve been dying to try. Consider taking her on a road trip – the alignment of the planets this month almost guarantees that your rendezvous will result in a satisfying sexual experience before the end of the month.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)

Single Capricorns should avoid dating any new partners at the beginning of the month, as Saturn has an uneasy alliance with Uranus for a good portion of the month. This can cause some problems in a new relationship, and it’s likely to factor into your love and sex life for the month. It should clear up around the 22nd.

If you’re already in an established relationship, however, you can use this time to deepen your bond with your partner. Watch an old movie or read a book together, and ensure that you are there for each other during this time. Make sure you are guarding against depression as emotions are likely to fluctuate throughout the month.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

The month of October is a great time for Aquarius to meet new people, as there will be plenty of parties (which you love!) and dating will be an adventure. The last week would be a great time to invite that special new person in your life to a fun party – whether it’s planned by a friend or by you yourself.
For my lovers, use this time to get into the Halloween spirit with your loved one. Pick out fun and sexy costumes for each other, unpack the decorations, and get to planning the perfect witchy bash for the spookiest night of the year. This social energy will translate to a charge in your sexual chemistry, and your sex life is bound to see a spike this month.

Pisces (February 18 – March 20)

Love and sex are on the up-and-up for you this month. Your anxieties will begin to fade away, which will allow you to connect with someone special towards the end of the month. If your anxiety hasn’t melted away completely yet, don’t worry – push yourself past it and the right person will come find you.
Fish in a committed relationship should take care that they are not overspending this month, as there are plenty of romantic activities you can do with your partner for much cheaper that will still allow you to harness the sexual energy building this month. Go for a walk and hold hands, roll around in some fallen leaves together, or share a bucket of popcorn at the movies – and then enjoy the sexual spark when you return home.

12 Reasons Capricorns Are The Best People To Have In Your Life

If you’re in the market for a new bestie, a Capricorn could be a good choice for you. Famous Capricorns include Elvis Presley, Edgar Allan Poe, and Mel Gibson, who are all well known for their creativity. There’s also Martin Luther King, Jr. and former U.S. President Richard Nixon – both known for their convictions. Basically, Capricorns are known for their inner power – something that makes them a powerful person to have in your squad.

Need more proof? Read on to find some of the great characteristics that are attributed to Capricorns everywhere!

1. They are calm under pressure, and know what to keep to themselves.

Unlike some of the other signs, Capricorns are reserved and cool. This means that they’re sure to be a good listener – they can keep their own emotions in check until they’ve helped you sort through yours.

2. They are known for their convictions and perseverance.

If you’ve already got a Capricorn in your life, most likely you know that they’re passionate and unyielding when it comes to the things they care about. Wouldn’t you like to be the one they’ll fight for?

3. They love power, authority, and respect.

And even better, they’re ready to command the respect you deserve, too. If someone is bringing you down, count on your Capricorn friend to put the other person in their place – and they’ll probably try to make them apologize, too.

4. They’re firmly planted in the present.

Some signs are quick to jump to conclusions, but not the realistic Capricorn. They understand that it’s more important to know something than to suspect something, and they won’t act until they’re sure it’s the right time.

5. They’ll be your voice of reason.

Capricorns understand that not everyone is able to look at a situation objectively – and they’re glad to lend their advice when you need it (even if you haven’t asked them to).

6. They’re warm and loving.

Even though Capricorns like to present themselves as a vat for facts and knowledge, they do allow themselves to show sympathy and warmth towards the people close to them. This makes them loyal friends.

7. They’ll challenge you.

Capricorns are known for their intelligence and quick wit – and sometimes we need a friend who’s going to call us on our crap. Leave it to your Capricorn friends to set you right when you’re in the wrong.

8. They’ll make you laugh.

If you want a friend who’s known for their sense of humor, a Capricorn may be the right choice. After all, Capricorns are known for being funny and witty.

9. They’re willing to make an effort.

I don’t know about you, but I have a hard time staying on the same page with friends without priorities. Capricorns, on the other hand, are hard workers and always willing to do what it takes to ensure that everything goes the way it should.

10. They’re flexible.

It seems like everything else points towards Capricorns being rigid, but the truth is, their loyalties are more important to them than their pride, so if something isn’t working out right, they’ll change the plans so everyone is satisfied.

11. They’re good with money.

Of course, you should absolutely never use your friends for their money – but if you need to borrow a couple dollars, your Capricorn friend will probably have some saved just in case. Just don’t expect them to give it away for free – you don’t keep your money by handing it off!

12. They need friends too.

Capricorns thrive on a close-knit community of friends and family, and their low self-confidence means that they will need validation from those close to them. However, this isn’t really a flaw, because they’ll be happy to offer you the same reassurances.

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What Your Zodiac Sign Says About the Way You Fall in Love

Is true love in the stars?

When thinking about the successes and failures we have in our love life, we are often looking for ways to ensure greater successes and less frequent failures. However, if you follow your horoscopes, you may know that some things are considered unavoidable – they’re destined in the stars.

Each of the signs has its own characteristics that will help determine their love, now and into the future. Read on to learn a little more about your sign – and maybe even the sign of a prospective partner!

Aries (March 21-April 19)

Aries women fall in love pretty fast when compared to other signs. They tend to fall hard, too – which will make them dedicated lovers when the time comes. They are courageous and enthusiastic, which will be sure that their partner knows how they feel about them. On the other side of the coin, they may be selfish and impatient, which can be frustrating when they’re dealing with one of the signs who takes longer to fall in love. If you’re in love with an Aries, make sure you let her know where you stand in the relationship at all times – it’s only fair!

Taurus (April 20-May 20)

Taurus women fall in love with subtlety. That’s to say that they don’t always realize that they’re falling in love until it’s too late to “change” anything. Not that they’d necessarily want to change it anyway – their nature is to be patient, loving, and persistent, which means that any relationship they enter is under the assumption that it will lead somewhere mutually beneficial. They can be a bit jealous, so it’s best not to bring this out in them, and they can be rather resentful if they can’t get their way. If you’re in love with a Taurus, it’s best to let her make the plans!

Gemini (May 21-June 20)

Gemini women are hesitant about falling in love – because they often fall in love with the last person they’d expect. However, their adaptability ensures that they will find a way to make it work regardless. They enjoy communicating with their partner and may become nervous if their partner isn’t as open with them. They are often eloquent and intelligent, and this can be either a blessing or a curse. It’s best that you treat your Gemini right, as she’s likely to have her revenge planned ahead of time!

Cancer (June 21-July 22)

Cancer women fall in love with the imperfections of a person. They are protective over their partner’s imperfections and will stand up for her even if she may be wrong. Cancers also have one of the widest “ranges” of any sign – they can be either loving or moody, intuitive or over-emotional, sympathetic or clingy. If you are a Cancer, it’s best if you work to balance out these traits as best as you can. If you’re in love with a Cancer, rest assured that this woman is going to love you with every ounce of her being unless you do something to mess that up.

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Leo (July 23-August 22)

In stark contrast to the things that Leos are overly confident about, Leo women are shy about their love. They won’t say it until they’re certain. They are often generous and faithful, even if they aren’t ready to admit their love yet – and their creativity can bring an exciting edge to the bedroom. However, they may be a bit bossy, sometimes to the point of misunderstanding – if you don’t agree with them, they assume you’re wrong. If you’re in love with a Leo, it can be a challenge to work around her potentially patronizing ways. Just rest assured that it’s coming from a place of love – she loves you enough to point out when she thinks you’re wrong.

Virgo (August 23-September 22)

Virgo women take a long time to fully fall in love. This is in part because of their meticulous nature; they have to be certain that it’s right for them before they allow their emotions to take over. They like to analyze all the details of the relationship and weigh these things against any feelings they may have to ensure that it’s worth their effort. They can be a bit of a perfectionist when it comes to their lovers, which is true to their nature, and they tend to forget to “soften” their words before they say them. However, if you love a Virgo, it’s best to remember that they are shy and practical, which is why they caution themselves so much.

Libra (September 23-October 22)

Libra women fall in love almost like it’s a joke. Those around them will see that they’re falling in love, but they’ll just laugh it off until the time is right. It’s a bit silly to keep it “hidden” when everyone knows, but Libras do this to help protect their own hearts. They are charming and easy-going, which makes it easy for others to fall in love with them – but this can translate to flirtatiousness and self-indulgence, which may make it difficult to maintain the relationship they’ve formed. If you’re in love with a Libra, you’ll need to be aware that their indecisiveness may someday outweigh their romance. This is especially true since they are easily influenced, and other women may be able to convince them to stray.

Scorpio (October 23-November 21)

Scorpio women are passionate about their loves – but they do their best to keep their private life private. They are intuitive over the various aspects of their lives, which may lead them to unnecessary jealousy if they put the pieces together wrong. However, they are determined and magnetic, which guarantees that they will keep you enthralled once they have you. Just be aware if you are in love with a Scorpio that they may be keeping things a secret. In most cases, these are minor secrets, but in certain scenarios it may be something negative – make sure you try to push her to communicate with you for the most success.

Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)

Sagittarius women fall in love super fast. They know “the one” when they see them, and often make the decision soon after that they will be a large part of their lives. They do love their freedom, but what they love more is a woman to share their freedom with them. They are honest, and because they assume others are too, they can be a bit optimistic (sometimes when they shouldn’t be). If you are in love with a Sagittarius, it’s important that you remain truthful to her – after all, her high intelligence assures you that she will find out at some point, and then you’ll be in trouble!

Capricorn (December 22-January 19)

Capricorn women take a logical approach to love. They have a method to their emotions, and they won’t declare their love unless they know the person will do right by them. They are ambitious and driven towards a practical solution – and they are always patient in their execution. Unfortunately, this ambition leads them to a bit of pessimism, as they are worried that things might not go the way they’d like them to go. If you’re in love with a Capricorn, you’ll need to reassure her that you’re not going to do wrong by her. Don’t just tell her – show her!

Aquarius (January 20-February 18)

Aquarius women fall in love quickly – but with subtlety. They will feel themselves drawn to a person, but won’t be able to pin their finger on it right away. They’ll be faithful and honest, but they’ll keep their emotions to themselves – which can be frustrating to the women who love them. This doesn’t mean it’s impossible, though; they’re just independent. You should strive for their love and respect, but let go of the idea of her needing you – she won’t. She can be a bit unpredictable and detached, but with the right partner (preferably one who is patient) she will open up over time.

Pisces (February 19-March 20)

Pisces women are innocent about their love. They will enter any relationship with the idea that it could lead to love – and when it does, they feel completed by it. These women are imaginative and intuitive, which can be a tricky combination – even she will have a hard time determining what’s a realistic outcome and what’s just a figment of her imagination. They can be vague and may have a tendency to flee if their needs are not being met. However, if they are satisfied in their relationships, they are compassionate, selfless, and sensitive. Therefore, if you love a Pisces, it’s best if you are ready to lead her in the right direction.


A Woman Creates Vibrator Selfie Stick; Just In Case You Wanted To Share An Orgasm Selfie

And there we were thinking dildos were the original selfie stick…


Yup, it’s a vibrator attached to selfie stick.

So now, you can capture the moment you make yourself orgasm.

We wish. In society were everything is shared and nothing is sacred – why not share with the world.

Alas (for the moment) the innovative creation appears to be just an elaborate joke – making fun of the extent to which we over share every detail of our lives through social media.

After all, the website looks basic to say the least and there’s no clear place to purchase it from.

But some people seem pretty keen on the idea.

One person commented on YouTube:

This is literally [the] invention of the year.”

We may disagree with that, but we’ll keep you updated if its finally launched.

14 Reasons Why Morning Sex Is the Best Sex

You can get it on almost any time of day, but we’re pretty sure the morning is the absolute best. Why?

In the morning haze, when you’re at your most vulnerable and still easing into the day, nothing beats the feeling of having someone next to you wrap her arms around you and make you feel wanted.

Morning sex is like eating chocolate cake for breakfast – it’s decadent, indulgent and comforting. Plus, who doesn’t want to linger in bed just a little longer?

The benefits extend to more than just being uncharacteristically nice to everyone for the rest of the day. Multiple studies have shown that individuals who engage in morning sex are healthier and happier people.

Your post-coital glow that others are noticing isn’t totally bogus.

And waking up to an eager partner sure as hell beats waking up to an alarm clock.

So, here are all the reasons morning sex is the best sex.

1. You’re guaranteed to wake up on the right side of the bed.

2. You should be well rested.

3. The bedroom workout means you can skip the gym.

4. Who doesn’t want to begin the day with an orgasm?

5. Because your clothes are already off.

6. You can travel to work together after.

7. It’s more intimate.

8. It affirms that you two are still interested in each other sober.

9. Because you love an excuse to gloat at work.

10. It’s a better replacement for coffee.

11. It puts you in a good mood all day

12. You and your partner will fight less

13. If gives you a reason to shower together

14. Because you’ll actually remember it.



15 Problems Women Who Sleep With Other Women Will Understand

15 problems only gay women will understand about sleeping with other women

1. When she has the same name as you, it gets very confusing and pretty weird.

2. When you sit talking for hours about the world, and then end up feeling like all you want to do is fuck.

3. Will you still sleep with her even though she’s slept with one of your friends?

4. Stubble rash…. it happens

5. Not knowing whether you actually want to sleep with her or just be her friend?

6. Apprehension about having a long nailed woman near your vagina.

7. The assumption that because she has a vagina; she’ll know how to touch yours…

8. Or visa versa

9. She’s a Virgo, which is super weird because you’re an Aquarius. Are these two signs compatible in bed? Quick google.

10. Is her cat going to watch you have sex the whole time?

11. “Hold on, I have hair in my mouth” said by every longhaired lesbian.

12. How long the sex will last, and how you always end up hungry and thirsty at the end of it.

13. Is it weird that you both kind of look and dress alike?

14. Am I the pillow princess or is she…

15. She smells like your ex, cos they wear the same freakin perfume.


6 Steamy Ways to Make Things Better in Bed With Your Girlfriend

It might seem like asking your girlfriend to do things differently in bed is a dig at her sexual prowess, but it isn’t.

Any woman who is really good in bed will appreciate the input. So, here are some sexy ways to help her improve.

1. Have her watch you masturbate — and make yourself come.

It’ll show her just what you’re like right when you’re on the edge and also hopefully clue her into all your “tells” when you’re enjoying something. If she knows what you’re like when you really orgasm, she’ll try and replicate that on her own.


2. Bring a vibrator into it.

Try to find something relatively inconspicuous (bullet vibrators are nice and small) and show her how to work it on your clit during sex. Or just place it there and sandwich it between your bodies so it works for both of you.


3. Propose a little BDSM where you’re in control.

If she’s into it, tie her up and tell her exactly what you want her to do to you. She won’t think twice about your instructions if it’s part of a sexy game.


4. Take her hand and guide her.

Show, don’t tell. It’s true of storytelling and also sex. Actively helping her feels sexy, as opposed to awkwardly trying to tell her what to do with bad dirty talk.


5. Watch a sexy lesbian film together (and make sure to queue up a few clips of things you want to try).

Say something like “I’d love you to touch me like that” while the two of you watch a scene together is always a hot way to request trying something different.



6. Bring her into a different room for sex.

She has her go-to bedroom sex moves down, but if you’re in a new environment, you’re going to have to get creative. Use it as an opportunity to try new positions (doggy-style bent over the kitchen counter?) or angles that work better for you.


Pay Attention: 9 Tips For A Better Orgasm With Your Girlfriend

Lesbian Author, Jenny Block is a lifestyle writer and the author of O Wow: Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm, so we decided to ask her for some top tips.


1. Tell you partner what works for you.

You don’t have to be bossy. You don’t have to be mean or tell her that she’s doing something wrong. Just say, “I love it when you…” Or I sure would like it if you’d…” Your partner wants to please you. Give her the chance.

2. Breathe.

It can be very tempting to hold your breath when you’re turned on. But breathing will make your orgasm that much deeper and stronger. Your muscles need oxygen for exercise and sex is definitely a physical pursuit.

3. Let go.

Forgot about the time. Forget about the laundry. Forget about what you look like naked. There’s plenty of time. The laundry can wait. And you look incredibly sexy – otherwise there wouldn’t be someone waiting to devour you.

4. Forget everything you know.

Sticking to an old script can mean missing out on all kinds of new sensations. So let go of what you know – or what you think you know – and use pleasure as your only guide. If it feels good (and it involves enthusiastically consenting adults of course) go for it.

5. Move.

It’s ok to move your body. In fact it’s great! And – trust me – your partner will love it because it shows you’re enjoying what she’s doing. So lift your hips, rock your pelvis, get to moving around. Don’t miss out on anything that enhances the fun.

6. Make noise.

Sex feels good. It should any way. And when we experience a sensual pleasure, our inclination is to make noise. So give in and sigh, moan, pant, scream, whisper, talk dirty, whatever the moment inspires. Just like when you move, making noise tells your partner she’s got all the right moves.

7. Love your body.

You only get one and it’s your home. So love it. Thank it for gifting you with the only organ in the universe created solely for pleasure – the almighty clit. Loving your body will inspire your partner to love yours – and hers – as well.

8. All hail the clit.

It’s likely no mystery to you that the clit is it. But keep in mind that the external bud you see on the outside is literally just the tip of the iceberg. The rest is nestled inside, including long legs that rival the average penis in length. So rub and press and penetrate and play in any and every way to get the most bang out of your orgasm.

9. Go blended.

For most women, the blended orgasm is their ultimate orgasm. So don’t be afraid to really get in there and go for the blended. A blended orgasm involves vaginal penetration, clitoral stimulation, and a little back door play, if you’re game! Get all three going at once – using a combination of mouth, hands, and toys – and you’ll be seriously seeing stars.

You can purchase Jenny Block’s book here.

O Wow

Photo source: Steph Grant – www.stephgrantphotography.com


Lesbian Bush Confidence VS. Cockiness

Maybe it’s just me, but I think that women look better with a nice confident trimmed bush. Whatever the type you have it’s beautiful in all the different textures and colours.

Changing it up with different shapes can be fun (and a fun surprise for your partner) but don’t just assume that every lady prefers hard wood floors to soft cosy carpeting.

You can catch more videos from Arielle Scarcella on her YouTube channel – so good and so funny.

Lessons Every Straight Girl Could Learn from a Lesbian

It’s a scientific fact that lesbian women achieve  more frequently than straight women, so there must be a lot straight women can learn from lesbians – right?


You can catch more videos from Arielle Scarcella on her YouTube channel – so good and so funny.

10 Secret Facts About Your Vagina

Ok, before we start – the first of the things you should know about your vagina is that there is no right or wrong look. The vulva are the outer lips of your vaginal area and every woman’s vulva is different. You might have plump, curvy vulva or thin, elegant vulva.

Embrace your shape – all vulva are beautiful and unless you are in discomfort or a porn star, there‘s no reason to consider labiaplasty (vaginal rejuvenation surgery).

So what are the essential things you should know about your vagina. It’s not usually a subject we talk about amongst friends, and oft times we are too embarrassed to seek advice from a medical professional. It’s also hard to admit we might be a wee bit ignorant about the most intimate part of our body.

Also read: Breaking News: Vaginal Orgasms ‘Don’t Exist and The G-spot is a Myth’

Here are the essential things you should know about your vagina from the wonderful Laci Green.

The Female Orgasm, Explained with Science

The female orgasm has been subject to endless research, heated debates and plenty of myths.

Female Orgasm 01

Separating out fact from fiction while dishing up a refresher course, the team over at Wired has uploaded this video to YouTube, using clay models and chemical reactions to explain exactly goes down when a woman has an orgasm.

The vagina is not a passive organ but a highly dynamic structure with an active role in sexual arousal and intercourse. The anatomical relationships and dynamic interactions between the clitoris, urethra, and anterior vaginal wall have led to the concept of a clitourethrovaginal (CUV) complex, defining a variable, multifaceted morphofunctional area that, when properly stimulated during penetration, could induce orgasmic responses.”

Well duh…

Also read: Breaking News: Vaginal Orgasms ‘Don’t Exist and The G-spot is a Myth’

Breaking News: Vaginal Orgasms ‘Don’t Exist and The G-spot is a Myth’

There is no such thing as a vaginal or clitoral orgasm and the G-spot is a myth.

Well, that’s the conclusion of a group of researchers who want us to start coining the term ‘female orgasm’.

Why? Well, according to the team, it basically means the whole of a woman’s vagina needs to be stimulated effectively to create an orgasm – Dah! That includes the clitoris, the vestibular bulbs on either side of the vagina, and the pars intermedia – a band that joins the vestibular bulbs.

Their findings – published in the journal Clinical Anatomy – found that most women don’t have orgasms during penetrative sex.  And as a result, women have been labelled with sexual problems that are based on something that doesn’t exist: the vaginal orgasm.

The review did find that the clitoris is the key to all female orgasms, as the clitoris is a women most erogenous zone.

However, it is possible for ‘all’ women to orgasm if all their ‘female erectile’ organs (clitoris, vestibular bulbs, and pars intermedia) are effectively stimulated.

The review, comes after a U.S. study published earlier this year found that the size of a woman’s clitoris can impact their ability to have an orgasm.

In women who have orgasm problems, the clitoris is smaller and located farther from the vagina, the study found.

The researchers said their findings could lead to new treatments for women suffering from anorgasmia, who are unable to have orgasms.