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10 Valentine’s Day Sex Positions For An Unforgettably Romantic Night

Whether you two are in love, like, or lust, Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to have sex that’s as dirty as it is tender.

Valentine’s Day comes with a ton of pressure and expectations, and the holiday only gets trickier when you’re broke AF and still dying to spoil your girlfriend.

If you’re doing V-Day on a budget this year, I’d say one of the greatest gifts you can give your partner is a mind-blowing night in the boudoir. It’s easier said than done, I know, but studying these 10 Valentine’s Day sex positions is a good place to start.

So break out the bubble bath, stock up on chocolate syrup, and light enough candles to hold a freaking vigil.

Here are ten scorchingly hot sex moves to try with your partner this Valentine’s Day.

10. Joystick


This position offers the excitement of a new routine (and even props!) without forcing you to buy anything special. You can use any chair you have, as long as it’s big enough to seat both of you comfortably. (You will be on top of one another, so it doesn’t have to be anything giant.)

The partner who will be giving the pleasure will be seated in the chair, with one foot in front of her (so that her knee is propped up – see picture for clarification). The other partner will climb on top of the upright leg and begin to rub herself against it. She can lift her lover’s leg in order to maneuver things better, or she can just let the bottom partner take control.

This isn’t the sort of routine that will make your everyday routine, but if you’re looking to experiment with tribadism this is a good power position to try.

9. Rocking Horse

Rocking Horse

This position involves a strap-on, but the especially acrobatic can try it with a double-sided toy as well. The partner who is receiving will lie on her back with her legs in the air. At this point, the giving partner (wearing a strap-on) will slide herself under the legs of her lover and penetrate her with the toy.

If the partner wearing the strap-on wants to get a little deeper, all she has to do is lean forward. You can also consider caressing each other’s bodies, as you will be facing each other. To experience a tighter fit with the toy, the receiving partner can try putting both of her legs on the same shoulder. No matter how you mix it up, this position is sure to please!

8. Major Inspiration

Major inspiration

Okay, I’ll admit… I’m a bit of a watcher. Particularly when it comes to oral sex. I can’t help myself – I love to see the face of a woman enjoying herself. This position is perfect for that, as the receiving partner will prop herself up with a few pillows so she’s got a good angle to observe from.

Even if you’re not into watching, this position is great because the arched position of the back leads to stronger, greater orgasms – it’s science!

7. The Spoon


This has been a personal favorite of mine for a very long time, because it offers the warmth and closeness of cuddling with the undeniable pleasure of… Well, getting laid! While you’re spooning your girlfriend, the “big spoon” will simply reach around to the front and start fondling and caressing as she desires.

If you want to spice it up even further, you can get a toy involved in the action – once the “little spoon” is nice and wet, the “big spoon” can scoot back a touch and slide in her favorite toy. This might be easier if the “little spoon” pivots her hips a bit to put her bum into the air. For those who enjoy deep penetration, the pleasure you get from this particular position is incredible.

6. Above Below


This happens to be one of my personal favorites, and for good reason. It’s different enough to add excitement without being difficult – and it definitely has potential to turn into a super sexy experience.

One partner should be lying on her stomach. Optionally, she can position a pillow underneath her hips and rub herself against it as she becomes more aroused. The other partner will lay on top of her so that she can rub up against her partner’s bum – while she offers a helping hand to her lover underneath, of course!

Once you get the hang of this one, you should both be able to climax – maybe even simultaneously! But there are no rules here. The partner on bottom can be stimulated however you desire, and if you’re keen on penetration, it’s especially divine.

5. Skin Deep

Skin deep

This foreplay position is a great when you want to take your partner by surprise. (Please make sure that she is OK with surprise sex first!) The partner who will be seducing the other will come up behind her while she is standing and start caressing in order to warm things up. Of course, this doesn’t have to stay one-sided for very long! Once the receiving partner is thoroughly aroused, she may decide to reach her hand back and stimulate the giver as well.

If your partner is into the idea, you can even consider penetrating her from behind with a strap-on or other toy, although this may be significantly more difficult – experiment and see what works for you!

4. 99


For another super simple position that will get the juices flowing, 99 relies on the sexy feeling of your partner’s body pressed against yours while you’re making love. But instead of lying down or standing up, both partners will be on their knees.

You and your partner should be sitting back-to-front, so that you must both reach past the front partner’s hips. It doesn’t matter who is giving, who is receiving, or if you’re both doing both – this position is a great way to tease and tantalize.

3. Face to Face

Face to Face

This is a super sexy position for those among us who like to watch what our partner does to us (but don’t want to miss out on the fun of making her moan). Not only do you get to watch her turn you on, but you also get to watch the faces she makes as she touches you!

You’ll be sitting face to face with your partner, with your legs draped over one another to allow for a better angle. It works easiest if neither of you is “on top” of both legs – this way your vagina will be slightly lifted from the floor or bed (if you will be penetrating). With either a double-ended dildo, two separate dildos, or your hands, go to town – nothing is off limits as long as your partner enjoys it!

Pay special attention to her face during this position, because you might see signs of pleasure you haven’t noticed before. This is great for intimacy and with the right toy it can be a supercharged experience that’s sure to ignite the fire within.

2. Magic Touch

Magic Touch

This one is for the ladies who have major finger skills – since you’ll be stimulating you and your partner simultaneously! The non-giving partner should be lying on her back, with her legs slightly spread. The other partner will climb on top and straddle her vagina. She should be able to use her fingers to rub both clits at the same time.

It’s not for the faint of heart, but with a little practice it will be one of the sexiest forms of “masturbation” in your repertoire. Not only does your partner get to watch you touch yourself, but you’re also directly stimulating her as well – talk about hot!

1. Stand and Deliver

Stand and Deliver

This position doesn’t require any special skills, tools, or any real prerequisites (except that the partner who’s going to be receiving should be able to stand). It’s the ideal position for shower sex, sex against a wall, or maybe even a quickie in the kitchen!

The receiving partner will need to stand in front of the giving partner. She’ll be most comfortable if she’s up against a wall or some other solid surface, but those who are more versed in sex standing up can even do it in the middle of a room.

The giving partner will either sit or kneel in front of her lover and provide whatever type of pleasure she wants – oral, fingering, or a toy even (or any combination). It’s pretty basic, but it can add a fun new level to your intimacy.

There are literally hundreds (if not thousands!) of amazing sex positions out there, and we are always looking out for something new and exciting. If you have something to recommend to us – don’t hesitate to drop it in the comments!

We’ll be keeping our eyes out, too – here’s hoping 2016 brings a wealth of exciting new techniques for you and your lady to master together. Take care of yourselves, and each other!

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This Couple Were Told They ‘Need A Man’ By Restaurant Chef On Valentine’s Date

Couple Ellie Parker and Lucy Stenger, say that a rude chef ruined their Valentine’s date by telling them they “need a man” to “heat things up”.

The couple of Lafayette, Indiana, had planned a romantic meal out on Sunday to mark Valentine’s Day.

They decided to visit Japanese steakhouse Asahi – but were greeted by a chef who initially failed to understand how lesbians work.

Ms Parker spoke out on Facebook, saying


Our chef came to grill our food for us and was asking everyone if the person with them was their boyfriend or husband. He got to my girlfriend and I and asked where our Valentines were.

We told him we were each other’s Valentines. We were holding hands mind you. Clearly a couple.

He proceeds to say ‘well it is legal, but it’s such a waste to not have a man’.

Later he continues to insult our relationship by saying he could come home with us to ‘heat things up’.

I am appalled that I would receive this kind of treatment. I cannot believe I paid over $50 to have my relationship insulted and sexualized.”

She posted a picture of the pair’s receipt on social media, with their message:

Don’t tell lesbians they need a man on Valentine’s Day”.

After the post went viral, Ms Parker added:

Thank you all for the support! The restaurant did refund our money, but nothing can make up for the way we were treated. I hope sharing this helps others avoid this situation in the future.”

However, the restaurant denied the allegations – telling Mic that they had “no idea” about the claims before hanging up.

Another Inclusive (And Heartfelt) Valentine’s Day Campaign From Hallmark (Video)

Hallmark has once again launched a heartfelt campaign for Valentine’s Day.


Tagged #CareEnough, the new video features mixed and same sex couples, young and old, sharing their love stories, proving that it’s not difficult to make inclusive advertising.

In each short film, one partner gives a Valentine’s card to their partner, before expressing how much their relationship means to them.

The couplers then exchange a kiss, in scenes sure to bring a tear to your eye – especially if you’re single…

The campaign’s tagline is simply “When you want to get the kiss”.

Each TV ad is accompanied by an online ‘backstory’, giving more details about the couples featured.

Lesbian couple LaParis and Karisia tell of the moment they first met, before sharing the deep love they feel for each other.

This is not the first time Hallmark have included LGBT couples in their ads, with a number of its previous campaigns winning praise from the community.

Although other companies have tried – and failed – to break the LGBT market, Hallmark says the reason its campaigns work so well is due to its “authentic approach” to its widening, diverse. modern audience.

Rob Reeder, Hallmark’s marketing manager of greetings, said

Hallmark seeks to help people emotionally connect, in every life, every day. With this campaign, we are highlighting the ‘every life’ aspect of our mission, as we share the caring stories of all kinds of couples because love is love.”

Ian Johnson, CEO of LGBT marketing consultancy, Out Now welcomed the campaign, before congratulating the brand on its approach to the community.

Watch two of the heartwarming ads below:



8 Romantic Lesbian Movies To Get You In The Mood For Love This Valentine’s Day

Its Valentine’s weekend, and you’re seeking the right video for a date with that special lady. Something with a good plot, good acting, good directing and some heated romance. Don’t sweat it. Kitschmix.TV has your back.

Here are 8 romantic lesbian films that we think are worth watching (and renting) for Valentine’s Day — or anytime you want a good dose of Sapphic love.

Happy Ending

This high-energy romantic road movie stars the beautiful Sinha Gierke (It’s Not Over) as aspiring law student Lucca, and the stunning Verena Wustkamp as her new friend Valerie.

Irresistible chemistry blossoms between them as the two women embark on a wild adventure to deliver the ashes of recently deceased friend to her final resting place – rent it now


Claire of The Moon

Cult lesbian film Claire of The Moon is about author Claire Jabrowski who finds herself sharing a cabin with Dr.Noel Benedict at an annual retreat for female writers.

Claire and Noels contrasting personalities cause inevitable friction, but, despite their differences, the two cannot deny their obvious lusting attraction towards each other and begin a passionate affair – rent it now

Claire of the Moon

My Friend From Faro

Nana Neul directorial debut draws comparisons with ‘Boys Don’t Cry’ and ‘Unveiled’. It’s the story of eternal daydreamer Mel chance meeting with the beautiful Jenny. It is love at first sight, however there is just one problem: Jenny mistakenly assumes Mel to be a boy. Despite this, they become boyfriend and girlfriend. With Mel attempting to disguise her true gender at every turn, her journey from tomboy to out lesbian is fraught with life-defining dilemmas and sweet surprises – rent it now

My Friend From Faro

Wedding Song

The Wedding Song takes place in Tunis in the year of 1942. Two teen girlfriends defy the odds as they face the war together against Nazi’s and Allied bomb threats. One girl is Muslim, the other is Jewish, and they cling to the bond they’ve shared since childhood – rent it now

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Butch Jamie

Looking for a bit of humour then Butch Jamie is for you, as this is a hilarious lesbian comedy. Jamie Klein’s life seems to be going nowhere but south – out she is an out of work actress and unlucky in love. But then Jamie is finally cast in a lead role – as a man! Keeping quiet, she reluctantly accepts the role, only to fall head over heels for her on-screen love interest, Jill. What ensues is a hilariously complicated and sexy affair where Jamie must do whatever it takes to get the girl – rent it now


Stud Life

Stud Life is a sexy, young and cool lesbian romance taking a unique look at a slice of British urban life.  The film is about Londoner JJ and her search for love. When she falls in love with the beautiful and mysterious Elle, friendships are put to the test. For the first time in her life JJ has to choose between her hot new lover and her best friend – rent it now

Stud Life 01

Hannah Free

Hannah Free tells the moving story of the lifelong love affair. Hannah and Rachel grow up in the same Midwest town, where traditional gender expectations eventually challenge their deep love for one another. Hannah becomes an adventurous, unapologetic lesbian and Rachel a strong but reserved homemaker. Weaving between past and present, Hannah Free reveals how these two passionate women maintain their love affair despite a marriage, a world war, infidelity, and family denial – rent it now

Hannah Free

A Map For Love

Roberta is a young lesbian living in Santiago. Her girlfriend, Javiera is a woman of the world; actress, a dancer and philosopher. Despite all of Roberta’s best efforts to avoid it, she finds herself in an awkward situation when she has to introduce her new girlfriend to her conservative mother, Ana.

When Roberta can think of no other way to put off the meeting, she comes up with a bright idea – to go on a small sailboat and leave for a trip with Javiera and Ana, leaving them nowhere to run! For all those who understand what it is really like to introduce your parents to your partner, A Map For Love  is a fresh and exciting addition to the new wave of lesbian cinema – rent it now


Orange Is the New Black And The Litchfield Love Map

Don’t have enough time to binge watch the first two seasons of the Netflix comedy Orange Is the New Black? Then check out the Litchfield Love Map.
A lot went down in seasons one and two – from all the crushes, hookups, breakups, down-low relationships and full-fledged love connections, the inmates, their friends, families and even the prison guards are all interconnected in some very complicated and messy ways.

MORE: Get the scoop on Season three of OITNB’s

That’s why Netflix has mapped it all out for you just in time for those relationships to get even messier when season three premieres later this year.


Orange Is the New Black seasons one and two are currently streaming, and season three hits Netflix later this year – I’m already counting down the days. Okay, maybe not days, exactly, since we don’t have an actual premiere date from Netflix yet, but at least we know that sometime we’ll finally get to see what’s going on with Piper (Taylor Schilling) and the rest of the Litchfield inmates and new arrivals.

Low Budget Valentines Gift Ideas

It’s not how much money you spend on Valentine’s Day, it’s the thought that counts… right? Right?!! Oh cr*p.

With Valentine’s Day swiftly approaching, it’s time to get a move on when it comes to finding that perfect gift. However, what with the holiday season having just ended, we know that funds can be pretty tight.

No problems, Hannah Hart has got you covered. There’s something for every one and your wallet will thank you!


& Other Stories Debuts Valentine’s Day Campaign Starring Lesbian Couple

The fashion company & Other Stories has a new Valentine’s day campaign, which features models and real-life couple, Eden Clark and Lizzie Tovell.

The photo shoot highlights the tender moments in their relationship via a series of romantic and subtle self-portraits, and presents positive representation of queer love in mainstream outlets.

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This is not the first time the company has used a same-sex couple in the advertising. The British retailer featured real life lesbian fashion couple Jenny Shimizu and Michelle Harper in a lookbook last spring.

Hallmark’s Valentine’s Day Ad Features A Real-Life Lesbian Couple

Hallmark has joined Tiffany & Co. in championing diversity with its new Valentine’s Day campaign, titled ‘Put Your Heart to Paper’. which includes interviews with real couples, who are asked how they feel about one another without using the word love.

Probably the sweetest of the bunch is the relationship between Eugenia and Corinna, and we learn about their quirks and their steadfast love for each other. Beautiful and touching, it sends a heartwarming message that love comes in all forms.

Watch the ad below and view the other ads in the campaign after.


Get it while it’s hot! Valentine’s For Pizza Lovers

Choosing the ideal card for your Valentine could be an overwhelming assignment. Well maybe, until I cam across these beauties; pizza-themed Valentine’s Day cards. This is an ideal gift for those who cherish pizza and love.

Photo: Etsy

Be my Valentines

With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, couples are rushing to search for the perfect gift for their partner. If you’re in a lesbian relationship you know that just as much as you want the perfect gift, so does she. Homosexual presents are not that different from heterosexual presents. No matter what, the gift should count for something. You can go traditional with chocolate, jewelry, flowers; or you can try something new.

First, you have to know what your partner likes and what she is interested in. If you have been in the same relationship for a long period of time, then this part shouldn’t be that hard for you. However, if you have just lit the spark in this newfound love, it’s never too early or late to find out what her interests are.

But how do you do that? Observe, observe, observe. Daily habits say a lot about her preferences. Find the one thing she is so passionate about, that her eyes glow when she speaks of it. If it’s music, get her some concert tickets. Theatre? Tickets to a play (her favorite one if possible), etc.

Always remember even though you may want to impress your lady, you don’t want to break the bank if you don’t have to. Don’t take a loan out for the perfect gift! It’s the thought that counts. Don’t be cheap and just throw something together at the last minute, either. Jewelry can be reasonably priced with some careful research.

Keep everything spontaneous, you want to keep her on her toes so she doesn’t get bored of it. The relationship is all about love. Don’t worry about being an emotional person around her. Make a t-shirt with your faces printed on it and wear it together, just for the heck of it.

Another fabulous idea is to take her to a memorable location. Perhaps where you had your first kiss, maybe where you first became an ‘official’ couple. Maybe Valentine’s is the time you want to propose to your dear girlfriend. Choose a proposal location that isn’t to public, in case things get a bit awkward.

A great gift idea if you have been in a relationship for awhile is a charm bracelet. Something she can cherish now and forever. You can add charms to it periodically, maybe for her birthday, Christmas or next Valentine’s!

Valentines is about expressing your love, but with the help of materialistic tools. They can be big and expensive, or simple and sweet. The idea is to keep it about the love. If you think just chocolate and a card will do to make her day, then go for it.

Appropriately timed for Valentines Day

This is the perfect gift for all design and illustrators lovers. Written by Francesca Gavin, this collection of heart imagery highlights how a universal symbol can be creatively interpreted and constantly reinvented. It captures the breadth of art and design imagery exploring the meaning and representation of hearts… #valentinesday, #kitschmix