What Does Her Body Language Tell You On Your First Date?

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We humans have very common ways of reacting to things, and knowingly or unknowingly our body language tends to give out what is there in our mind.

So, although your date might say, it was great and she’ll be calling you back, it doesn’t necessarily happen so.

This is because; no one wants to be rude or upfront to anyone on a date night.

But you can surely guess what you can expect by their body language.

1. Good sign: leaning forward

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This usually means that she is inclined towards you. She is very interested in what you’re talking about, and wants to hear more from you. She clearly has an interest in you.

Yes, this is a very good sign for a future date.

2. Bad sign: hands folded

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This usually means that your date is withholding her thoughts and not being completely honest to you. She doesn’t want to reveal too much and wants to be in control.

Sadly, this is not a good sign for a future romance.

3. Good sign: Smiling and listening intently

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This clearly shows that she is interested in you and is enjoying your company. She is interested in your talk and would look forward to meeting you again.

It is a positive sign for you.

4. Bad sign: looking here and there

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This portrays signs of boredom. She is not just disinterested in your talks; she is more interested in the surroundings or wants to get out of the date as soon as possible.

Big, bad sign for a future romance.

5. Good sign: brushing hair with hands

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Women have this sexy habit of playing with their hair. This shows signs of blushing or shying off. It is a cute gesture and shows keen interest in you or probably what you said really made them blush or conscious.

This is a good sign for future dates with her.

6. Bad sign: always on the phone

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If she is constantly texting or excuses herself again and again owing to calls, she is definitely regretting coming down for a date. It surely means that she finds her phone apps to be more interesting than you. As she cannot get rid of her phone for even 30 minutes, it is a bad sign for you.

They are not really worth your time.

7. Good sign: extending palm on the table

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If the person is extending their hand over the table or holding hands with you it means that the person is really into you. You have a great chance of landing with the person and the person really likes you a lot.

It is a sure shot positive sign for your romantic life with your date.

8. So-so sign: biting nails or covering mouth with palm

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Some people have this bad habit of chewing their nails or covering their mouths while talking. But according to body language science, it shows signs of nervousness. It might not necessarily be a bad sign, it might just show that the person is sort of intimidated or a bit nervous and hasn’t really opened in front of you yet.

What are the other signs that you encounter while on first dates and what do they usually mean to you? Share your experiences with us and other users in the comments section.

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