31 First World Lesbian Problems Kat 9 years ago 1. Other lesbians not thinking you’re gay 2. Having “that talk” with a member of your family 3. Being told “you’re going through a phase” 4. Being introduced as “my lesbian friend” 5. People insulting gay people without knowing you are one 6. Finding out the woman you like is straight, or are dating someone else 7. Straight women asking if your are a lesbian 8. The death of your favourite lesbian character in EVERY TV Show 9. And then the endless search for Lesbian subtext in EVERY new TV show that comes out 10. Being asked which is the “boy” in the relationship 11. Having to out yourself when you make a new friend 12. Online dating struggles 13. Shopping in the boy section, then having to use female changing room 14. Being mistaken for a man “excuse me sir, oh I mean…” 15. Straight men asking questions about your sex life 16. Gay man asking you questions about your sex life 17. Straight women asking you questions about your sex life 18. Presents from distant family members 19. Referring to your girlfriend as partner, to keep your sexuality neutral in your workplace 20. Becoming a lesbian stereotype 21. As a couple, being confused as friends or worse siblings 22. When your periods syncs with your girlfriends 23. Suffering through a bad movie in order to watch that three-minutes of lesbian romance 24. Having a straight girl crush 25. Being too afraid to ask a woman you fancy about her sexuality 26. Being a straight girls experiment 27. Bro-friendships and listening to their views on women 28. Over analysing your girlfriend’s motivations 29. Lock Jaw! 30.Being told lesbian sex is not real sex 31. The ending of The L Word