An Introvert’s Guide For Asking A Woman Out KitschMix.com Staff 9 years ago 1. Don’t try to be some you’re not. Be yourself and she will like that about you! 2. Start with a simple conversation. Initiate your talk with something casual. 3. Do your homework Put your efforts in understanding her interests, her likes, dislikes. 4. Use the Internet to reach out. Add her on Facebook 5. Don’t stop being shy Some women adore shyness other women. 6. Appreciate her. Don’t come up with any cheesy pick-up lines. 7. Be calm. Don’t be like a drama queen! 8. Maintain eye contact. Your eyes will communicate half the message. 9. Don’t forget to smile That is the best way to overcome your fears, but don’t smile too much! 10. Be alright with a ‘No’ There are plenty more fish in the sea.