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Women Explain The Science Behind Gaydar

It’s been said you can’t judge a book by its cover, but in our gay world there is this crazy little thing called ‘Gaydar’.

The idea of ‘Gaydar’ is that we gay people are highly accurate at detecting other gay people.

Hmmm, is it that easy? Can you look at someone and know if they are gay, bisexual, straight, pansexual… and so on?

I’m not too sure. I’ve always found it a lot harder to spot a lesbian. Some, women find it easier to hide their sexual orientation. Some do not fit those classy stereotypes the world has about lesbians – a) short hair, b) flat shoes and c) practical clothing.

The fact is, just like straight people, LGBT people come in all types. The only way to know anyone’s sexuality for sure is to ask.

And yes, that can be an intimidating task, but as long as you’re respectful and do it with a kind heart you’ll know for sure.

You can catch more videos from Arielle Scarcella on her YouTube channel – so good and so funny.



  1. liz

    July 6, 2015 at 4:23 am

    definitely better to just ask becos a lot of people wear flat shoes (very comfy) and have short hair esp in the summer months and honestly even straight ladies carry the rainbow flag and or wear rainbow designs be it t shirts, earrings etc dare i say ignorantly . its happened to me before —got chatting to a lady turns out she did nt know what the rainbow flag represented and just wore the t shirt becos its colourful..unbelievable but true

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