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Quiz | What Kind of Dating Stalker Are You?

You’re not dating yet, but you are doing what you might call ‘pre-dating’, which is as much a part of courtship these days as exchanging phone numbers.

So what is ‘pre-dating’? well methodology varies – some favor LinkedIn; others Twitter or blogs – but according to a new Match.com survey a good 48 percent of women research a someone on Facebook before the first date. Clicking through someone’s public photos is kind of like passing them in the hall at high school. You see her and get a sense of her life without actually having to put yourself out there.

But is the time you spend with someone’s online persona messing with what might develop in real life relationship? Do you ever become a little too obsessed? Its time to find out…

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Leading Lesbian App Dattch is Relaunched as HER, After Receiving $1million Investment

After receiving $1million investment, Dattch, the leading app for lesbian and bisexual women, is relaunching as HER.

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The name change signals the next stage of growth for the app, as it takes on a stronger social focus in preparation for expanding across America and launching internationally.

HER has also closed a $1million seed round of investment from leading investors Alexis Ohanian, founder & Chair of Reddit, Michael Birch, founder of Bebo, Andy McLoughlin, founder of Huddle, AngelList and 500 startups.

Also: What Women Want From Dating: An Interview with DATTCH Founder Robyn Exton

Created by Robyn Exton, the app combines Pinterest style layouts and Tinder functionality with queer events and the best content from across the web.

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Announcing the relaunch, CEO and founder Exton said:

“HER is about creating a space where lesbian, bi, queer, curious, flexisexual, pansexual and not-so-straight women can meet and find out what’s going on in their lesbian world. Dattch taught us a huge amount and you’ll see the best parts of it in HER, along with a whole new experience incorporating everything our community kept asking us for.

More social, less dating. Women aren’t looking for a ‘Hot or Not’ – they want to chat & meetup, make friends, meet girlfriends, find events. HER is a complete lesbian community” 

The app, which launched in London in 2013, is now available in the UK, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Miami and New York. Phoenix is the most-requested city so it’s next on the docket, and will be available to women there by next month.

HER is available to download on the Apple app store & will be available on the Android store soon.

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What Lesbians Do Before and After A First Date?

So what are your dating rituals? Our favourite vloggers, Steph Ello and Arielle Scarcella, take us through the pre-date insecurities to a fashion crisis, on to post-date facebook stalking, sexual preference confirmation, and to the great text debate – who texts first?

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Watch and enjoy people…

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After… too funny

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Dating Disappointment, Its Time to Deal With It – #DatingDisappointment

Dating is one of the most emotionally challenging things a person can do. You meet a nice person, have loads of fun and you allow yourself to think that the long search might be over. And then, nothing happens. She is too busy, too far away, not available or worst of all you are not the one. How do you deal with such disappointment?

Don’t overthink it

Do not try to think why this person did not want to go out with you anymore. Did I do this or that? Maybe if I change this one thing I will be perfect. No, these kind of questions will get you nowhere. The point of dating is to find someone who will love you just the way you are.

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Don’t take it personally

Take the dating game as a sales person takes a sale. Realize that every ‘no’ means that you are one step closer to a ‘yes’. Take what you learn from each date and use it to better your game ready for the next one.

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Love Yourself

At the end of the day you are trying to find someone to share your love with. This is not going to happen if you don’t take care of yourself. Sure, you are not perfect and there are some things maybe you could have done differently in the date but you’re only human. Learn to forgive yourself fast. Then indulge in the healthy activities you enjoy with the people who love you just the way you are.

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Be Patient

A fisherman throws his pole into the water many times. Sometimes he has to wade through what he catches and throw some back but eventually with enough patience he gets his catch. Bring the same patience and mentality to your dating. Do not look at dates as failures but as a means to an end with your one and only being just another pole throw away.

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15 Bisexual Problems When Dating

Bisexual – then you’ll recognise some of these classics. In fact, most women in LGBT community have probably heard one of two of these questions, because even though we’re living in the 21st century, a host of stereotypes still exist.

This new BuzzFeed sketch features a woman who identifies as bisexual and another who identifies as a lesbian, as they go to a party together and introduce themselves as girlfriends.

The partygoers’ responses highlight the ridiculous assumptions people still make about bisexuality.

“You guys must be having so many threesomes.”

Five Simple Steps – How to Avoid an Awkward Moment of Silence

You are in a conversation with a great person you just met. Everything is going splendidly until suddenly, you run out of something to say. You briefly smile and look away. She says nothing, you say nothing. Awkward! Just how do you avoid these awkward silences in the future?

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Five Simple Steps – How to Avoid an Awkward Moment of Silence

1. Be prepared

Before going out or meeting that special someone prepare. Research, ask around, and get lots of stories and topics to talk about. If you have an arsenal full of tasty rib cracking conversations you won’t stall. Whenever you hit a dead end there will be five more paths to choose from.

2. Safe statements

Learn your safe statements. When you hit an awkward silence talk about the food, weather or the stories around town. Practicing this will give you time to think of something more concrete to say next.

3. Attentive listening

People love to talk about themselves. You can keep your date talking about herself for quite a long time just by listening and asking the right questions. Avoid boring questions that make your date sound like a job interview.

4. Activity

If despite all your efforts the awkward silence is still there. Suggest an event. Go for a walk, dance or whatever activity your situation allows. Find something to diffuse the tension. Make sure it’s something you can do together.

5. Enjoy the silence

A philosopher once said ‘our ability to enjoy silence can say more than any words we can find to fill that silence’. Whether we open our mouths and talk or stay silent we are always communicating what we believe about ourselves. If the idea is of awkwardness in your mind then that is what your date is going to read in the conversation. It is our minds that transform what was simply a moment of silence into an awkward moment of silence. Step in and enjoy the moment. Do not look at your phone or gaze around, simply look at her and relax.

Great Lesbian Dating Tips From Dating Expert Mary Malia

An informative video by Mary Malia for YourTango.com – 3 Great Dating Tips Every Single Lesbian Should Follow

“Ladies, we’re going to give it to you straight. After coming out, one of the reasons why it’s sometimes hard for us to find love — or jump back into the dating field, for that matter — is because we end up getting in our own way. It makes sense that we’re so caught up in figuring out the protocol for asking a woman that we miss out on a lot of opportunities. It’s okay to be nervous about how to approach that girl that we ran into at the bookstore or on line at the coffee shop; we just have to remember that the only way that anything can happen is if we put ourselves out there. That being said, are there any dating rules that we can follow to make playing the field easier?”

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Dating expert Malia talks about ways to get out of our comfort zone and find love.

“We don’t need “gaydar” to crack the code of whether or not a woman is interested; we just have to get up and ask her! And if she ends up saying that she doesn’t feel the same, we shouldn’t take it so hard. Just brush it off and smile because the more you ask, there’ll come a day when you get to that “Yes”

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This content originally appeared on YourTango.com as: “3 Foolproof Dating Tips Lesbians Should Follow”

 

Big Question – How do You Tell if She is Falling for You?

There are many reasons why a woman chooses to spend time with you. But, how can you be sure she is interested in you?

Here are sure signs that tell you she is falling you.

Body language – First and foremost be very attentive to her body language. A woman who is interested in you will glow and joy will ooze from her when you are around. She will smile and do that thing with her hair. No sensitive man can miss that, because it is so strong. Watch out for giggles, blushes and that trance like expression that tell she is falling for you.

Communication – She communicates with you more. She wants to talk to you about her past relationships, vision, activities and even her fears. She talks about personal stuff that she would otherwise not share with others. Communication to her is her time to connect with you.

Initiating conversation – If she is always initiating a conversation with you. Women rarely do this unlike they really like a guy who is not getting the hint!

Flaunting her assets – She sways her hips when she is walking away or towards you, she makes sure to draw really close to you so you can see her pretty cleavage. If a woman is falling or you she will want to show you that she is truly beautiful and physically appealing.

Friends and family – If she is into you she will introduce you to her friends and family. This shows that she is serious about you and wants you to be part of her life.

Questions – She wants to know everything about you. What do you do? Where you were born? What is your favorite TV show? She is definitely falling for you

Jealous – She acts funny when you are around other females she thinks you might be interested in. she is not green with envy but she doesn’t want another woman stealing what she already has eyes on.

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Ten Killer Signs You’re with The Wrong Lesbian

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She is suspicious of everything you say and do, and constantly accuse you of violating her trust. BUT guess who’s going through your phone and hacking into your email?

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She treats you less like a partner and more like a possession. As in, she doesn’t care too much about who you are per-se, but who you are for/with/in relation to her.

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You suspect she likes hearing the sound of her own voice more than she like hearing yours.

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She disrespectful to your family. To your face. And she doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

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She doesn’t need any personal space, and get upset/suspicious/offended when you express the need for it.

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She can’t take responsibility for her own emotions, and will always find away to take it out on you even if you had absolutely nothing to do with her bad mood.

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She is constantly disapproving and discouraging of your goals and efforts, to the point where you don’t even bother telling her what you want anymore since she’ll cut it down anyway.

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She doesn’t respect your time. Right NOW is the opportune moment for that tedious task / modelling project/huge argument, damn it.

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She fights dirty. Sure, fighting is a normal part of any relationship, but it’s pretty easy to decipher how someone really feels about you during a fight by the type of insults they hurl.

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No matter what you do, there’s always something not good enough, half-assed, or less than about your efforts. You always feel like you have to “prove” yourself and you’re always failing at it.

Lesbian 101 – The Worst Dating Advice Ever

Lesbian 101 – If you are single and looking for that special person you have probably heard it all. The good and the bad. Here’s a list of the worst dating advice ever. Beware it’s also pretty common advice too.

Play hard to get – Even for ladies this rarely works nowadays. Pretending to be uninterested in a lady will not make her want you more, you will appear snobbish and a total jerk if you are always full of yourself and wait for the ladies to line up for you. You will also be alone.

Just get out there – This is a popular one. Mostly used by your friends and colleagues who are already in a relationship and assume you are just not going out there enough. The problem is, just where is there? The street corner or the bus stop? Please tell them to clarify where “there” is. At least then someone can know what to wear!

Women love bad butches – The advice mostly involves people telling others that they should not be a ‘goody two shoes’. They should toughen up. Sure some women don’t go for the suit and blouse type, but most women love a honest, hardworking women.

Don’t show her you care – This macho advice seeks to protect the idea that as a women showing emotion is wrong. Feelings should be bottled up inside and never let out. Not true my friend. Some feelings are to be shared with your special one, it will make you much closer,

She is out of your league – If she is too beautiful, wealthy or successful then she is out of your league. You don’t have to equal her in everything before you ask her out. This misconceived line explains why so many successful women find it hard to get partners,

Jut be yourself – The people who say this think that if you are just yourself then everything will go well with you. News flash: in the world we are living in you have to keep improving yourself and not stay stagnant. Don’t be just content to stay yourself. Improve yourself every day and you will definitely get the woman of your dreams.

So, What is the Best Way to Get a Lady Online? We explore the Do’s and Dont’s

With all the hustle and bustle of modern life, sometimes it is a bit hard to meet someone right, let alone start a relationship. If you are looking to meet that special someone and don’t have the time or opportunity to do so, online dating is the way to go.

But, just how do you make online dating a success?

Make up your mind – The first step is to make the decision that online dating is what you want. It is not a game. You will be talking to real people whose time, feelings and emotions should not be taken lightly. You should be sure that you are ready to date.

Choose your service/website – There are many online dating services available. Choosing which one to join is a matter of lifestyle and personality. Do your research as some sites are popular to certain groups of people.

Set up your account – You should give this important task at least five hours. Fill up the provided form as accurately as possible. Upload a recent picture of yourself. Resist the temptation of uploading your old pictures when your head was still full hair. Be as honest as possible

Don’t copy paste your messages – There are many beautiful ladies available online. The ideal method of contacting them is via messages. Introduce yourself and gauge their reply. Keep it simple and interesting. Proof read your mail before sending. Making a potential partner laugh is always a good thing. Be a gentleman and respond to messages promptly. If a date is writing to you she is also writing to others. Be creative.

Meeting up – If someone strikes your fancy after the introduction, suggest a meeting for coffee or a cup of tea to see if you really like each other. Don’t email each other for months without meeting. The longer you wait to meet the harder it becomes.

Finding a partner should be treated like a job. It requires dedication, diligence and patience. All the best in finding an online date and remember to have fun.

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Great First Date Ideas For Your New Lady

You finally asked her out and she said yes! Now all you have to do is arrange the perfect first date. Don’t worry; here are excellent first date ides that will ensure you get a second date.

Go for a walk – yes really!

You don’t have to do something very complex in your first date. Most people think that a first date is all about impressing their new favorite person. Wrong. Take this time to get to know each other better. A walk around town, in the park or to the local attractions is not only delightful but will give you ample time to talk to each other.

Festivals and fairs

If you are lucky enough to have a festival or a fair going on nearby, go for it. Festivals offer a lot of fun, games and activities perfect for a first date.

Museums, exhibitions, aquariums

Strolling through a gallery of paintings with your date is relaxing and makes you seem sophisticated. Aquariums with their weird, slimy and toothy creatures also make for an interesting day out with plenty of topics at your disposal. This can be extended to zoos and amusement parks.

Theatre

Going to the theatre is ideal. First, you have to dress up so you will both be looking your best. The theatre is also a classy first date and unlike a movie it has an intermediary where you can chat and get to know each other better.

Coffee

A coffee date is very comfortable and a guaranteed safe zone, plus you won’t have to worry about the expense and complexity of a four-course meal! Look for a spacious coffee joint with a great view.

One-hour classes

This is a sure winner. Women love women who are creative and think outside the box. There are plenty of one-hour classes available. Be it painting, pottery, drawing or anything else. Just make sure it’s not too complicated and there is a feeling of achievement at the end.

Adventure date

If you are the adventurous type go for rock climbing in an indoor gym or hiking in the nearby fields. If you live near the coast: snorkeling and sea diving are among one of your many options. Confirm with your date first if she’s okay with the activity first, you don’t want to take her deep sea diving and she’s hydrophobic!

Music show

The conversation is of outmost importance. Sometimes though music can balance things out nicely. Don’t go for rock or heavy metal, no. Look for something mellow with lots of dancing. This will be a memorable event.

 

5 Signs Your Girlfriend is Not over Her Ex

It is very painful to be in a relationship with someone who would rather be with someone else. It is a waste of time and not fair to both parties at all. If your partner is not giving 100% to the relationship but is still reliving an old relationship, then your union is not going anywhere.

So, how can you tell if your partner is not over her ex girlfriend and save yourself the heartache that is sure to come down the road?

1. She is distant and confused

You catch her staring into an empty space. Sometimes you get the feeling that something is wrong with her. When you ask her she says nothing or it is something she has to deal with alone. After a few minutes or a bit later she comments about her ex. She is thinking about her, a lot.

2. Excitement

She gets really excited when her name is brought up. If she bumps into her it’s as if she’s a celebrity. She becomes animated. She likes to go to places she used to frequent with her ex. Maybe she is secretly hoping to bump into her again.

3. My ex this, My ex that

She constantly twists conversations to talk about her ex. She enquires from friends about her whereabouts and what she is up to now. It seems like she is being very open and honest about her former relationship when she talks about her to you but no. She still has the hots for her.

4. Facebook

She still has her photos in her account. She regularly comments on her exes updates. You might even see the awkward message from a friend who still think they are a couple asking how the relationship is going.

5. Friends

Her friends do not know who you are, but they know her ex.

What Women Want From Dating: An Interview with DATTCH Founder Robyn Exton

With its innovative features and cool design, the DATTCH app is a phenomenon in the world of lesbian dating. Recently named the Huffington Post’s Entrepreneur of the Week, founder Robyn Exton is expanding the app into the US, Australia and Canada. Tom Sykes asked her about the secret of her success.

Tom Sykes: How and why did you first set up DATTCH?

Robyn Exton: I used to work for a branding consultancy and one of my clients was a dating business. I learned a lot from them about the business. Later on I was in the pub helping a friend sign up to a dating site. It was basically a site for gay men, which had been re-skinned for gay women. It asked questions like “How much body hair do you have?” That may be relevant to a bear or a twink, but not really to a lesbian!

There were fake accounts on this site and you’d get straight guys sending you messages trying to “convert” you or asking for a threesome. So I realised that lesbians had two choices: these re-skinned sites or straight sites where, even though you’d select “interested in women”, you’d still get harassed by straight men. Seeing a gap in the market for a lesbian-specific dating site, I quit my day job and spent 6 months raising the bootstrap funds for a brand new app. It launched in the UK in September 2013.

TS: What features did you build into the app that would distinguish it from the competition?

RE: We architected our app around what women want from dating, which is very different to what men want. We started with a standard engine – the type that all the other dating sites use – and found it didn’t work for females. Our users weren’t messaging each other and the interaction was really poor.

Unlike other sites we don’t show you the user who is nearest to you geographically because girls tend to find that a bit creepy. We discovered that women are really bad at describing themselves as compared to men. On gay male apps we found that men tend to exaggerate characteristics like height, saying they’re 6 foot instead of the truth which might be 5 foot 9. On the other hand, women tend to undersell their body types. They won’t, for example, say they have an athletic body type unless they go to the gym every single day.

We took the emphasis away from writing about yourself and onto using images to describe who you are. DATTCH is a mobile platform and our phones are filled with images of how we spend our time and where we’ve been going out and so on. In many ways our pictures are a far more accurate reflection of the kind of person we are. So our profiles on DATTCH have Instagram built into them so you upload images that show how you spend your time, the food you eat, the sports you play etc. It’s also possible for users to “like” each other’s content.

We also have an interaction game called ‘Would You Rather’ where you get shown the profiles of two girls and you decide which one you’d rather have a conversation with. If it’s a mutual match then DATTCH will let you know. Our ‘Relationship Mode’ allows users to retain membership even after they have found a steady partner. Your profile is updated to say that you’re off the market, even though you can still access the blog and chat with other users

TS: There’s been a lot of bad press about fraud and abuse on dating sites. How does DATTCH safeguard against those threats?

RE: We verify everyone who joins the app, ensuring that they are both female and genuine. We mostly use Facebook to do that as well as Skype and phone calls. Obviously we can’t guarantee that at some point somebody who shouldn’t get through will get through, but so far the system has worked fine.

The downside with our approach is that some people who we’d like to join aren’t able to at the moment. While we are accepting female-identified trans users we are not accepting male-identified trans users, but that could change in the future.

TS: Have you tried it DATTCH yourself?

RE: Yeah!

TS: Was it successful?

RE: I have gone on dates through it, but I’m not now in a relationship as a result. However, I did meet a couple recently that, having met on DATTCH, are now moving in together. They described each other as “soul mates” which was really nice!

TS: So where next for DATTCH?

RE: The Android version has just come out and last Friday we launched in New York. We are then expanding across the US city-by-city before hitting Canada, Australia and then the non-English speaking countries.

 

Reasons You Should Date an Older Woman

Every lesbian should date an older woman, at least once in her life. Why you ask? Let me fill you in on the secret advantages of dating an older lesbian.

They are independent – Older women are often less clingy and needy. They don’t need a woman by their side all the time to be happy. This makes them easier to get along and much more fun.

Less drama – Maybe it is because younger women experience so many first’s in their relationships, their life is full of drama. It’s kind of hard not to get sucked in sometimes. Older women don’t amplify the small things. They can handle their problems real well and often all alone.

No pressure – An older woman is not at that age where all her friends are setting down. Getting married and raising cats is not at the forefront of her mind. She does not have the need to find Ms. Right now.

They know their way around the bedroom – She has more experience in the bedroom affairs than your average twenty year old. Can any lady say no to a woman who knows exactly how to please her?

Confidence – Older women ooze confidence. Whether it is approaching you or the way they present themselves. The confidence is there. This is a welcome trait considering the many shy girls who have a problem replying to a simple hello.

They teach you a lot – Every lady wants to be with a woman who is not only mysterious but one she can learn something from. Older women will keep you coming back for more as they have lots to share with you. An older woman will impress and surprise you for quite a long time.

 

 

Survival Guide: 10 Things That Happen In A Lesbian Relationship

A very funny article written by Mila Jaronie; a writer living and working in New York.

If you are new to the lesbian scene and curious about the future, here is a list of things you can expect to find yourself experiencing once you trap the lady love of your life.

Also read: 5 Common Misconceptions About Lesbian Relationships

Invincibility. When you’re in love, you’re invincible. Nothing can touch you; you share a heartbeat and that’s all that matters. There’s nothing to worry about anymore – you’re safe, you’re warm, you’re protected. You’ve made a home in each other’s arms and hearts and you’re facing the future fearlessly, together, head-on. That is, of course, until she finds an unread message with one too many smiley faces in your inbox from some hot girl. Suddenly, you’ve got a lot of explaining to do.

Olympic drinking. Prepare to be constantly tipsy. In your new relationship, you will feel joyously carefree and adopt a devil-may-care attitude, which will make every day with your girlfriend seem like a mini celebration. Going on an autumn walk? Wine in a traveling cup. She just got out of her linguistics final? Shots! You got off work at midnight instead of 2:00 a.m.? A house call with cheap vodka and champagne is in order. You’re so excited to be together you make every day a party, even if it’s a Tuesday afternoon and you have papers to write.

Olympic crying. Get ready for an onslaught of feelings, girls! You will find new and interesting reasons to be emotional, and therefore take crying to new levels. Cry because she’s the one. Cry because you’re not sure she’s the one. Cry because you’re drunk and her smile is so beautiful. Cry because she’s the only person who understands you. Cry because even after four months, she still doesn’t fully understand you. Cry because she’s fucking you too hard but you don’t want to ruin the moment. Cry because she’s crying. Really, the possibilities are endless.

Severe REM loss. Face it – once you get into a serious lesbian relationship, you will never sleep again. The hours you used to spend sleeping will suddenly be filled with one or more of these: passionate sex, mechanical sex, drunk sex, half-assed sex, angry sex, or a screaming fight about not having sex, followed by pity sex and a faked orgasm (which you don’t normally do, but damn it, you’re really tired).

Expansion. Of the horizontal variety. In a relationship, it is almost guaranteed that you will get fat and happy. You will lie contentedly in her arms on your plush couch among your eclectic throw pillows and reflect on how lucky you are. You will order in and eat out. In a spirit of domestic goddess-osity, you will attempt to cook dinner from scratch, which will of course result in half the kitchen on fire and subsequent takeout from the Chinese bistro down the street. You won’t mind. You’re in love.

BBS (Broke Bitch Syndrome). Enjoy your savings now, because once you get a girlfriend, they will disappear. Bar tabs, vacations, birthday/Christmas/anniversary/Fourth of July presents, decadent seven-course dinners, her car payment, that $245 pair of jeans you impulsively bought because they looked cute on her and she needed cheering up, etc. will chew up and spit out your bank account. You will need to apply for a new credit card just to be able to afford Valentine’s Day.

DSAS (Different-Sized Arms Syndrome). Look, at some point you are going to have to finger-bang your girlfriend. And unless you’re perfectly ambidextrous (or at least ambi-competent), you’re going to be using your dominant hand. Hours of finger-banging will cause your tendons to become extremely flexible and your forearm to exhibit muscle tone you never thought possible. Plus, if she likes it rough, you’ll also develop quite an impressive bicep. Of course, after you break up you’ll start lifting regularly to even out your two different arms, but one will always be slightly larger. Damn it.

Mobile phone aerodynamics. It is also likely that, at some point, you will get out-of-proportion upset over a passive-aggressive text or short, stroppy phone call, and in a flash of rage you’ll decide you’re done with her shit and hurl the phone across the room, at the ceiling, or into moving traffic. You will later send her a Facebook message telling her that you lost your phone, you’re sorry for ignoring her calls, and you’ll be home for dinner.

Chronic worrying. Your laid-back nature will suddenly give way to irrational paranoia and gnawing self-doubt. You will begin to worry constantly, about everything: what she’s doing when she doesn’t answer your texts (even though youknow she’s in for the night), what she meant when she said “I really need to concentrate on my work right now,” and why it’s 2:30 a.m. and she isn’t back from that “talk” with her ex yet. You will question everything – yourself, your relationship, your life choices, whether you’re even gay – and freak out accordingly

Chronic apologizing. In addition to worrying about everything, you will start apologizing for everything. Or, alternately, you will never apologize, and be the one to stomp off in a huff in the middle of an argument even when you’re wrong.

Also read: The 10 Best Things About Being a Lesbian That No One Tells You

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7 Steps to Capture a Ladies Heart

The following are a few strategies you can use to win the heart of a woman. The outcome will vary depending on the personality of your lady, so you will have to figure out which methods to use…

  1. Fill up your love tank – Love the people surrounding you; welcome their decency, and love yourself. We tend to be more fascinated to women who illustrate that they are to be respected and valued. Friends can help particularly affectionate and wonderful friends. It will present in your well being if you are full of love and when you are full of love, you can love others already.
  2. Be yourself – While women love to be pursued, most women still love to chase women. Shine in other things so she will perceive you. Act as if she’s not your goal and let him target you instead.
  3. Create moment together – Suggest taking walking at sunset, or a picnic at the Park or in the Zoo. It is important for you to make some moments together, because that is what life is all about.
  4. Share your dreams and aspirations – Your relationship does not consist of you alone so when it comes to your thoughts and aspirations, see if it fits with hers. How close or far apart, similar or conflicting are your dreams and his dreams, then you’ll know if you are to go on this relationship or not. Never give up a dream just to satisfy your partner’s emotional insecurities, as this will be the cause of the potential breakdown of your relationship in the end.
  5. Don’t criticise – Learn to listen to your partner’s side and don’t be a faultfinder. Your relationship must have trust in order to have future. Nurture and win trust instead of abusing it.
  6. Cook up Love – Be the master of the kitchen and attract your woman through his stomach.
  7. Be a friend – Yes that right, be friends first and became lovers later on. Lovers should only be second from friendship to make it continue longer.

Does Love Get Old For Lesbians?

Age is but a number… or is it? When an older woman hits on you, its hard to say how you should act or what you should say. No matter if you’re ready for the relationship or not, it’s best to be prepared for it.

Ideas for ‘Older’ Lesbians to find their match:

  1. Internet: The internet is becoming more and more popular for people to find the love of their life. Why not older women as well? There aren’t as many public scenes for the cougars, so online dating is more subtle and way more effective for their age group.
  2. Activities:  Clubs are a great way to find people in your age range, who also enjoy similar things that you do! It never hurts to try, right?
  3. Friends: Friends can help out a lot, whether you’re in public and spot someone cute, and you want them to start the conversation for you, or if something goes awry and you need backup.
  4. Spark: Keep your spark and charm! Just because your age is going up doesn’t mean you have to lose your charm. You need to keep the intimacy and love between you two, or the relationship will get boring really quickly.
  5. Who are you?: Who are you? What do you want from yourself and your Lesbian relationship? You need to know your goals and intents before getting into a committed relationship.
  6. Preparation: Physically and mentally, ladies! Be prepared for anything that may come up in your relationship. Finances are a good thing to have taken care of too.

Now if you are looking for the correct match for you, this may be exactly what you are looking for. Don’t give up on your love life… there’s someone out there for you, I promise! 

Lesbian Dating Tips to Land the Perfect Girl

Lesbian dating tips are a great way to review and study up for a great relationship with a wonderful girl. Good advice on dating is priceless and valuable. Lesbian dating, just like any form of dating is difficult if not all of the chemistry is there. You have to be yourself, and if you’re not, eventually your true colors will show through and you will have to face the consequences. You must have a compassionate heart to be in a relationship; thus learning that the world does not revolve around only you, and you must learn to be concerned with other people’s feelings. If you are being forced to listen, however, things can become irritating and boring for you; and you are more likely to stop listening all together.

Safety is a huge concern in all dating relationships, which is usually regarded around the first few dates when you are truly getting to know them for the first time. Lesbian dating, as always, needs to be safe and secure for all parties involved in the situation.

‘Honesty is the best policy,’ as they say. They are right. Nothing helps a relationship more than being honest with your partner. Eventually she will find out the truth whether you tell her, or she finds out from a third party source; and it is always less of a storm coming from your mouth. Honesty must be used when trying to move your relationship to the next level.

When meeting for the first time you must be light and outgoing. You should be humorous, and engage them in any conversation you are having- you don’t want to bore her, do you? Flirting gestures are a great way to keep the atmosphere light and less tense from the stereotypical first dates. However, do not scare your newfound girl, you don’t want to become too serious too fast and scare her off, do you? Take some time and make sure she wants what you want, take it easy, and relax.

Dating tips are a breeze once you master them, and who knows, maybe reading one article like this one could save your relationship and help you meet the love of your life? You will be glad you waited and your relationship will go farther than you ever imagined.